Have Great Sex Without Going All The Way

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Here are some ideas from the good folks at Askmen.com on how to have a good time without having to "go all the way". Sometimes full blown intercourse is not practical or even possible. Here are some nice alternatives.

Sensual massage
Massaging your partner is among the most coveted activities in a relationship. A sensual massage, however, is a slightly different kettle of fish because it is relaxing and sexually stimulating at the same time.

There are very few rules to giving a sensual massage, but generally, slow and sexy movements are key. Take your time, use a scented essential oil that has aphrodisiac properties and keep the lights low. Glide over her skin using firm but gentle pressure with your hands or whichever body part you want to use, such as arms, chest, stomach, legs or feet. Just make sure to cover every inch of her body and avoid her hot spots until the final act. The idea is to make her want you to touch her hot spots. Take your time and create anticipation.

Touching each others’ bodies releases mood-enhancing endorphins, and no matter what happens afterward, the body feels good simply for having been nourished from the outside in. Also, don’t expect a sensual massage in return; Your partner will likely feel like a bowl of jello.

Phone sex
This is an old favorite, and it is very useful if you and your lover have to be apart. Since getting off with your girl on the phone is a really fun and dirty way to play, you don’t have to actually be too far apart; separate rooms will suffice. Our aural senses are very sensitive to erotic sounds; as a result, panting, heavy breathing and moans trigger a heightened sexual response. Phone sex can also allows a bit more freedom because you are alone and can therefore do as you please as far as masturbation goes. Physically, the pressure is off since she is responsible for herself and you for yourself. The topics you choose to discuss are up to you, but unless she starts it, stay away from anything involving family members, animals (PLEASE don’t even go there) and other women that you fantasize about.