The Top Ten Things You Need to Have Sex

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Here's a list of a few thing that AskMen.com think are need to have to have good sex. The top 10 are:

1- Candles
I suggest that you opt for one big, fat candle with a few wicks in it. As you know, there are many women who prefer having the lights off when getting their freak on, so candlelight will not only let you see those sweet mounds of hers, it'll also up the attraction and mood factor.

2- Lighter
How else did you plan to light the candle there, Einstein? Keep the flame close to the candle so that you can change the atmosphere in one easy step.

3- Mints
If you've just enjoyed a dinner that was chock-full of garlic, red wine and capped off the five courses with espresso, then your breath (and hers) likely smells like the jungle. Mints won't just make your breath kissable; they'll add a little something, something to the sex that is oral.

4- Special Pillows
Although you likely sleep on pillows, it's a good idea to keep a specially designed pillow that's made for sex near the bed (underneath it will do you just fine). It can be used to elevate her body and place her in a more than welcoming position... one that will have you drooling from both heads.

5- Water
You may want to keep some good old H2O by the bedside since dehydration tends to set in amid any exhausting activity. As well, she or you may want to cleanse your palate before moving on to each new body part.

6- Music
Fumbling around by the stereo for 10 minutes while trying to find what kind of music to play doesn't exactly enhance the sexual mood; have the music set in the radio and just press play.

7- Massage oil
Prepping her body for what's about to occur is a grandiose idea. Seduce her by rubbing everything from her thighs to her back. Beware, however, as some massage oils are not meant to be ingested. Don't apply it to areas that you plan on lashing with your tongue.

8- Scarves, ties, blindfolds
Whether you buy the real thing or have substitutes handy, using something to cover her eyes or bind her hands with will serve to up the ante on her sensual experience and inhibitions.

9- Lubrication
Sometimes, you may have a hard time getting things off the ground, so some extra moisture will serve to ensure that it's safe to go on inside. I recommend the water-based variety as it corresponds well with most condoms.

10- Condoms
If you don't already have a six-pack, now's the time to invest in your rubber friends. You never know when you might land face to face with a potential sex kitten, so always be prepared for the ride. Keep a pack of condoms in a nightstand because she may want to ride the milky train all night long.